Real Wedding: Lindsey & Mark’s St Fagans Wedding by Maria Farrelly

Good morning one and all and happy Friday!

What a week at Cwtch HQ. Maria’s (Cwtch the ride realtor) birthday, which in turn lead to up climbing Pen Y Fan (we thought she did suggest cocktails when we said we’d do whatever she wanted for her birthday), National Cwtch Day, St Dwynwen’s Day and we announced the sale of #Cwtchfest2017 tickets! Wooooooo

As you know, the amazing wedding festival that is #Cwtchfest2017, will be held at the stunning St Fagans National History Museum. So how perfect is it that we get to have a little throwback to our very own #Cwtchfest Organiser, Lindsey’s big day to her Mark, where you can see how stunning St Fagans is as a wedding venue …

Lindsey and Mark got married on the 7th of June 2014 at the amazing St Fagans National History Museum and their beautiful day was captured by our very own Maria Farrelly Photography. We asked Lindsey some questions about her and Mark’s big day. 

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How would you describe your wedding theme? Relaxed tea party St_Fagans_wedding372 St_Fagans_wedding579

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What was your favourite part of your wedding? The vows and how much in that moment I felt how much I meant it and how much it meant to Mark. He’s only ever cried to the film Marley and me so to hear his voice trembling with emotion gave me goose pimples. I have felt in a little happy bubble ever since. Also, our band Raspberry Jam were sooo incredible, we love live music and they just blew everyone out the water.

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Tell us about your Wedding Dress This is the point where I learnt Pinterest can be dangerous. I fell in love with a dress which I soon came to realise was a couture dress from a boutique in San Francisco. Very within my means. I probably drove my bridesmaids mad searching for something similar and to limit my choices it had to have sleeves! I found that the only place that exceeded my expectations of wedding dress shopping was Rachel Burgess Bridal Boutique in Penarth, I believed she really cared about making me feel like I wanted to feel in that dress. However, the dress I fell in love with was an Augusta Jones Mai dress from the lovely Laura May in Roath who were brilliant. My belt is my keepsake from the day made by Ashley from With Love from Bobbin it’s the only thing I’ve allowed myself to keep. I love it. St_Fagans_wedding141 St_Fagans_wedding146St_Fagans_wedding029

Who did you pick as your bridesmaids &/or best man and why? Mark had 3 best men as there was no choosing between them. They have been through thick and thin together. However they each had their own roles. Matt planned the stag, Jamie was at the end of the aisle with Mark and poor James got the speech.
I originally decided I would have no bridesmaids as I have a lot of very close friends and just didn’t know what to do. However, I read an article called ‘bridesmates’ and how since the recession brides have cut back on bridesmaids yet their friends are still bearing the stress and responsibilities and of course cost of being one. It quickly became apparent my four Cardiff girls were these girls they became my go to for everything I love them to bits!! St_Fagans_wedding389 St_Fagans_wedding399 St_Fagans_wedding404

Why did you choose your venue? We debated for ages whether to have our wedding in St Fagans as it’s where I work but when viewing other venues I just found myself constantly comparing it to there. I also love the fact that we can take our kids there and can visit when we are older etc. St_Fagans_wedding334St_Fagans_wedding527Tell us about your wedding photographer: 

From the second I saw Maria’s photography and met her I knew she had to be part of our day.  Her love and enthusiasm shone through the way she spoke and her work.   It was all I talked about with Mark that evening- I actually got up and danced when she said she had our date free.

It was really important to us that we did not spend hours having staged photographs and the results are stunning!! I cannot believe how Maria has captured the important moments in such a way that didn’t impact on the day and yet are still so beautiful.

As someone who works in the wedding industry I respect Maria’s professionalism and how much she cares for each and every client. I could not recommend anyone else more highly.

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How did the proposal happen?  Mark took me to Edinburgh for my 30th as a surprise. That in itself was a massive deal so I was blindsided when after climbing up to King Arthur’s seat on the morning of my 30th in the snow (after arguing all the way up as I kept falling as it was so slippery) with 2 plastic bottles of wine and strawberries he proposed. I made him call my dad straight away as he hadn’t asked permission and I know it would have meant a lot to my dad. St_Fagans_wedding149

Any DIY stories/tutorials you’d like to share? Everything I did was DIY. As I work in my venue I knew I could do everything myself. Invites were done by my fabulous bridesmaid Lisa. Flowers were delivered in massive buckets on Friday morning and we spent all day doing arrangements. Jars were collected and decorated by friends for their wedding and donated to us. Tables runners were cut the night before. Table plan was written on a mirror night before.
I wanted it to be DIY to feel relaxed. St_Fagans_wedding042 St_Fagans_wedding063 St_Fagans_wedding543

What was your first dance & why? We had no first dance. Music means a massive amount to both of us but neither of us wanted to do a first dance. So we didn’t.

St_Fagans_wedding737In hindsight, was there anything you would have done differently? No we loved our day. St_Fagans_wedding746

Do you have any advice for future couples? I meet so many brides who are stressed and do not enjoy the process of wedding planning. The only thing I can say is no one else knows what you have planned and what is supposed to happen when. Your friends and family will come have a great time and you will be in a big happiness bubble. The stuff people get stressed about does not matter. St_Fagans_wedding296 St_Fagans_wedding352 St_Fagans_wedding444 St_Fagans_wedding450

What’s the best piece of marriage advice you received? To never take the other person for granted and to end every day with ‘I love you’

What was your favourite thing about planning a wedding? Realising how much I personally knew about weddings and how to save money but still get the look and feel I wanted. I’m a geek sometimes and my inner arty self loved being crafty and also saving pennies. St_Fagans_wedding552 St_Fagans_wedding560 St_Fagans_wedding705 St_Fagans_wedding709

The Suppliers

Photographer: Maria Farrelly 

Ceremony Venue: St Fagans Castle

Reception Venue: St Fagans Oakdale Workman’s Institute
Bride’s Dress: Laura May Bridal
Bride’s Shoes: Jenny Packham from Debenhams
Bride’s Jewellery: Debenhams
Groom’s Outfit: His Own
Bridesmaid’s Dresses: Monsoon
Bridesmaid’s Accessories: With Love from Bobbin
Cake: Mark’s mum
Flowers: Bareblooms
Hair: Jackie at Yume Cardiff
Make Up: MAC
Band: The Raspberry Jam
Stationery: DIY
Caterers: elior@st fagans
Any Reception Decor/Props: DIY
Transport: Taxi
Other: LOVE letters from Cwtch the Bride

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Such a beautiful wedding! If you would like your wedding to feature on Cwtch the Bride you can get in touch here. And if you would like to hire our amazing LOVE Letters click here!

Non-Religious Wedding Readings: Part 4

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If you are still looking for that perfect reading for any kind of wedding, religious or otherwise, we have been feeding you many over the past two years. But we know that the ones we have found so far won’t be everyone’s cup of tea so we are continuing to seek out more favourite readings so that you don’t have to. Today I have a cute and funny poem by Hovis Presley for you.

I rely on you

I rely on you
like a Skoda needs suspension
like the aged need a pension
like a trampoline needs tension
like a bungee jump needs apprehension
I rely on you
like a camera needs a shutter
like a gambler needs a flutter
like a golfer needs a putter
like a buttered scone involves some butter
I rely on you
like an acrobat needs ice cool nerve
like a hairpin needs a drastic curve
like an HGV needs endless derv
like an outside left needs a body swerve
I rely on you
like a handyman needs pliers
like an auctioneer needs buyers
like a laundromat needs driers
like The Good Life needed Richard Briers
I rely on you
like a water vole needs water
like a brick outhouse needs mortar
like a lemming to the slaughter
Ryan’s just Ryan without his daughter
I rely on you

© H Presley 1994

High Street Fashion in the 2015 Colour of the Year

Colour experts Pantone have named their colour of the year for 2015 as Marsala, they describe it as “a naturally robust and earthy wine red”. This colour will suit pretty much every skin tone so is perfect for bridesmaids, but now that we are moving into spring/summer I’m not sure how easy it will be to find.

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Pantone also say “This highly varietal shade combines dramatically with neutrals, including warmer taupes and grays. Because of its burnished undertones, sultry Marsala is highly compatible with amber, umber and golden yellows, greens in both turquoise and teal, and blues in the more vibrant range.”

With all of this in mind I am making it my mission to find some beautiful high street fashions suitable for savvy guests and en trend bridesmaids.

ASOS

Needle & Thread at ASOS have some gorgeous hand-embellished dresses that would suit any skin tone

Iridescent Tulle Dress How perfect for a winter wedding?!!

Iridescent Tulle Dress
How perfect for a winter wedding?!!

If those seem a little out of your price range there are plenty of options at more budget friendly prices, here are a couple of examples

New Look

New Look have a huge range of pieces in this shade, here are some of my favourites.

Keep warm at a winter wedding with this Fashion Union fur coat

Keep warm at a winter wedding with this Fashion Union fur coat

Add an edge to your bridal look by wearing this Pussycat Leather Jacket over your dress!

Add an edge to your bridal look by wearing this Pussycat Leather Jacket over your dress!

This colour is perfect for a winter wedding and the sequins on this Amelie and Amber dress make it a little more festive

This colour is perfect for a winter wedding and the sequins on this Amelie and Amber dress make it a little more festive

Top Shop

Floral Overlay dress from Topshop with contrasting colour

Floral Overlay dress from Topshop with contrasting colour

Who says you have to wear a dress? This belted flared skirt from Topshop is bang on trend

Who says you have to wear a dress? This belted flared skirt from Topshop is bang on trend

Complimentary Colours

Whether you want something to compliment marsala accents in your wedding colour scheme or you just aren’t keen on the colour and want some alternative ideas here is some inspiration.

The beautiful Fiona dress from Oasis comes in three colours that pair beautifully with Marsala

Blow the budget on this gorgeous silk maxi dress from Topshop

Blow the budget on this gorgeous silk maxi dress from Topshop

 Make Up and Accessories

This Tom Ford lipstick from Selfridges would be a bold look for any bride

This Tom Ford lipstick from Selfridges would be a bold look for any bride

Elsie T Bar shoes from Agnes & Norman

Elsie T Bar shoes from Agnes & Norman

Nail Lacquer from Butter London

Nail Lacquer from Butter London

What do you think? Would you incorporate this colour into your wedding or have Pantone missed the boat with this shade? Share your opinions in the comments!

Styled Shoot: A Vanity Affair- Part 6 Vintage Props and Stationery

If you are planning a vintage wedding then this post is for you! The China Library and Belle Journée supplied beautiful vintage china and props for our recent styled shoot at the stunning Hensol Castle and these take centre stage for this post, complimented perfectly by handmade stationery from Byjo.

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Huge thanks to these amazing companies for getting involved with our styled shoot, and massive thanks to our readers who modelled for this shoot by Catherine & Angharad.

Featured Suppliers

To see the Inspiration behind our incredible shoot and a full list of all suppliers involved click here and for all of our styled shoot posts which show off so much more beautiful inspiration from these suppliers click here.